2 Simple Strategies For Never Losing Out Again
Life is full of ups and downs and sometimes has a few sideways thrown in. When things go wrong or don’t go as planned, or when something happens to throw us off balance and make us doubt ourselves, it can be tough to deal with. After all, we all want things to go well and end up as ‘winners’. But life will always throw challenges at us, and we can’t control everything. Nor should we try. It’s not what happens to you but what you do with what happens to you that makes the difference. Here are three easy ways that you can always come out on top.
1. Focus on Your Strengths
We’re a bunch of contradictions – sorry to break it to you. Sometimes happy, sometimes sad; sometimes hopeful, sometimes pessimistic; sometimes childish and sometimes mature. We also have a whole load of strengths and weaknesses that affect what we do and how we do it, but we tend to focus on our weaknesses and not our strengths.
A strength is something that you do consistently healthy– it’s something you’re able to do, you’re hard-wired to do it well, and you get an inherent satisfaction from doing it. It could be tackling and solving complex problems, empathising with people, having a lively imagination or being able to make the perfect omelette.
Focusing on what you do well rather than what you’re not so good at makes all kinds of sense. When you look at what you’re not good at, you feel bad about yourself and your ability, but when you focus on and play to your strengths, you’re guaranteed to get results, and it can even eliminate any adverse effect your weaknesses might have.
2. Set Things Up Ahead Of Time
Sure, there will be times when you can head into something, do brilliantly at it and get the result you were hoping for (generally if you’re playing to your strengths), but other times you might blunder forwards, wing it and not get the result you wanted. Whatever challenges or opportunities you’re facing, you’ll stand a much better chance of significant impact if you set things up to succeed ahead of time.
So what exactly do you want to happen? What solution, outcome or result would be great? Get clear on the work you want from what’s facing you and how it would feel to get the product you’re looking for. Then start breaking it down – what can you do to set things up so that your desired outcome happens? What needs to be put in place? What will help to make what you want to happen, happen? And to ensure the best product, what are you willing to do?
